I love dirty talk…
But I also find dirty talk to be so very unique to the individual speaking and listening. Because of this, I often use references to dirty talk in my fiction, limiting the actual talk. The dirty talk that I love can easily be a turn off for someone else. With my own partners, I adore the right talk for me. I find negotiating dirty talk to be underrated in terms of hotness. I love asking a new partner what kind of limits and preferences they have – trying different levels of language to gauge their responses. There’s something delightful to me about whispering a litany of ever-increasing filth into a partner’s ear.
I don’t do much phone sex, but I do enjoy sexting. I think I prefer the stealth of sexting. I can sit at restaurant and tap out the filthiest messages to a lover, and no one will ever know. There’s something wicked about receiving a sext as well.
I was surprise at ho little I’ve tagged my own fiction with “dirty talk,” but I’ve linked some of my stories that include dirty talk.